Monday, 27 February 2017
Don Jazzy Pays UNIOSUN Final Year Student Tuition Fees
A UNIOSUN student from Ipetu ijesa campus took to Twitter this morning to plead with Don Jazzy for financial assistance, telling him that he was about to be expelled from school for not paying his tuition fees.
In usual Don Jazzy fashion, he replied the fan, asking him how much he owed the school.
The student was quick to take advantage of the opportunity and told the Mavins records producer that the fee per session is ninety-five thousand nair (N95,000) and he was owing for two sessions, that makes it a total of One hundred and ninty thousand Naira (N190,000).
Don Jazzy asked him to send his account details as seen in picture, and after a short while the student took to his twitter account to confirm later that the Don had helped him with his fees.
See pictures below
Wednesday, 15 February 2017
Reasons Why Uniosun Students Must Protest (Must Read)
Surely, a review must be made on the attitudes of the students and the management of this institution. It is crystal clear that the time for a quick resolution has arisen as regards the present atmosphere in the school. Let me say emphatically that the comfort of man lies in the hands of others and it should therefore be noted that he that wants no peace must surely have no peace. It is time for the entire students of Osun State University to rise up against all forms of extortions and anti-students’ policies from the so called inconsiderate management that has insisted on breaking our various hearts and that of our parents.
Inarguably, we are the representatives from our various homes and we are responsible for any decision made. There are some facts that must be known to the masses before it can be easily justified that our actions are borne out of threats, frustration, negligence and most of all a wholly form of isolation suffered by every student of this citadel of learning.
Firstly, we study in a school where payments are made by students for some certain facilities which are not provided. Over the years, a total amount of #10000 has been compelled on us for a malfunctioning ICT and an inadequate or let me say never provided games as parts that make up our tuition fees. We should not neglect the fact that many of us have spent more than three semesters in this school whereby the ICT only provides a locked WI-FI connection which password remains undisclosed to us throughout the semester. I can say it emphatically that it is only if Jesus Christ would come back tomorrow that possibly these facilities would be made available. And they say we shouldn’t talk when the 400level students cannot boast of using the ICT facilities since their days in the University, when we are deprived of our rights, when we are yet to receive what we have been paying for over the semesters. Then…..why shouldn’t we protest?
Students as a matter of fact, often fulfill their own part by sitting for examinations at the end of each semester. It is another course for the management to make a prompt release of the results. Osun State University students suffer a lot when it comes to the aspect of checking results after exams. The management on their own part has continuously ignored the pain caused by a very late release of results. Though they also believe that our results determine our future in the next course registration but yet, they still fail to recognize and subscribe to the fact that late release of results easily delays course registration. Fresh students that were given late registration and change in syllabus have hampered early registration of courses for example. It seems this concept of I DON’T CARE attitude has formed and continued to flow as blood in their veins. The management never cares for us; whether their policies favour us or not, they do not care. Then if that should be the case, why should we not protest?
Now considering the economic status of the country at large during this moment, it is so embarrassing that the management of this afore mentioned institution heartlessly closed the portal as early as a month and few days after resumption. We had thought that the portal would be reopened for a fortnight time as often observed rather it shocked us so suddenly when the announcement that the portal would be reopened but still on a platform of #10,000 fine. After all forms of unsuccessful intellectual approaches that we took for the reversal of this decision, the management still chose to be at loggerhead with us despite the fact that our parents are deprived of their salaries by various state governors. Is it our fault that our parents wok in Nigeria?
They have just desired on their own to put us in pain by decreeing #10,000 late registration penalty fee. I can’t just envisage the ideas of our management towards this. How do they expect someone that has been striving to pay the actual fee to get the fine? From where do they want a student who finds it hard to feed three times a day to get #10,000? What should a student sponsoring him or her do? How do they expect a student who lost his or her parent along the race to cope? What do they wish for orphans on campus? What should be the fates of the entire students of Osun State University? And they say we should not say a word against injustice, and then….why should we not protest?
#Say_no_to_#10,000_late_registration_fee in_UNIOSUN#
Uniosun Students Says No To 10,000 Late Reg Fee
Good evening everybody
Uniosun students kicked against the rule of 10,000 naira late reg fee due to the fact that many students are yet to pay their school fees and the crisis the country is presently facing.
The school portal which was closed early December made some students not to have access to their portals by not been able to pay and register their courses for the present semester up to this very moment ..The situation got worsen when the VC walked out of the student on Monday during a close door meeting with the student leaders.. The student leaders tried to plead on behalf of the students so as to open the portal back in which after 70-75% students have paid they might close it back and who ever is yet to pay by then will face the consequences of 10,000 Naira late reg fee but the VC said NO.
Great Nigerian Students Vibrating Students of Uniosun We Are Against The 10,000 Late Registration Fees
In defence of peace and unity among the student's and management of Osun State University, we have been gentle and calm in our plea to the management to make learning and school life more conducive for us.
But today, 15th of Jan, 2017, we regret to inform you that the Osun State University management's policies have not been going in our favour.
As a matter of fact, it seems like the new administration (under the new VC) has been initially set up to pull us back and make schooling unbearable for us.
We will not sit and be bullied.
We have tried all possible approaches to dialogue but it seems there is only one language which they understand clearly and we shall speak it to them.
I'm this regard,
*_Tomorrow 16 - 02 - 2017_*
*There will total amputation activities in school tomorrow to protest the difficulties and hardship the students are facing.*
Increment of School fees, 10k Late Registration, Poor health service, and several other benefits of the students will be our course for tomorrow's protest.
We urge us all to join the movement and ask for what belongs to us.
*Aluta Continua!*
Court Jail Driver Who Killed Beautiful UNIOSUN Student (See Details)
The driver who allegedly killed a beautiful student of the University of Osun has is being made to pay for his evil ways.
An Osun State Magistrate’s Court sitting in Osogbo has ordered that a driver, Mr. Elijah Oyebode, and one Yusuf Ajibade, be remanded in the Ilesa Prison.
The two men were remanded for allegedly killing a 400-level student of the Osun State University, Miss Rofiat Adebisi.
According to Punch Metro, the two accused, who were arraigned by the police on Tuesday, were charged with conspiracy to commit murder and unlawfully receiving an iPhone 5 belonging to the deceased.
The police prosecutor, Mr. Mireti Wilson, told the court that the accused and other suspects currently at large committed the offence on December 23, 2016, at Egbeda in Iragbiji, Osun State.
The prosecutor said Oyebode, aged 22, and his accomplices killed the female student, while Ajibade received the mobile phone of the deceased valued at N100,000 from the alleged killers.
The charges read, “That you, Elijah Oyebode, and Yusuf Ajibade, and others now at large, on December 23, 2016, in the Egbeda-Iragbiji area, in the Iragbiji Magisterial District, did conspire among yourselves to commit felony to wit: murder, thereby committing an offence contrary to and punishable under Section 324 of the Criminal Code, Cap 34, Vol. II, Law of Osun State of Nigeria, 2002.
“That you, Elijah Oyebode, and others now at large, on the same date, time and place, in the aforementioned magisterial district, did kill one Rofiat Damilola Adebisi, a student of the Osun State University, thereby committing an offence contrary to and punishable under Section 319(1) of the Criminal Code, Cap 34, Vol. II, Law of Osun State of Nigeria, 2002.
“That you, Yusuf Ajibade, did unlawfully receive one Apple iPhone 5, valued at N100,000, from one Elijah Oyebode, knowing same to have been stolen, thereby committing an offence contrary to and punishable under Section 427 of the Criminal Code, Cap 34, Vol. II, Law of Osun State of Nigeria, 2002.”
Oyebode was represented in the court by his counsel, Mrs. P.O. Ofoyeju, while Mrs. Bola Adeyinka represented Ajibade.
However, the pleas of the accused were not taken.
The presiding magistrate, Mr. Olusola Aluko, ordered that the accused be remanded in the Ilesha Prison, while the Investigating Police Officer in the case should duplicate the case file and send same to the Department of Public Prosecutions for legal advice.
He also ruled that the case should be transferred to Court 4 and adjourned till March 31, 2017, for mention.
Tuesday, 14 February 2017
Important Message To The Freshers From The Management
This is to Kindly inform all freshers across six campuses to submit their signature online. Just in a week start from today. From Dr Adepeju A. Adigun, Ag. Dean, Student Affairs, Osun State University, Osogbo.
Thanks
Good News UNIOSUN VC, Prof. Labode Popoola, joins global leaders to launch the Sustainable Development Goals Centre for Africa (SDGC/A) in Kigali, Rwanda
As part of the commitments to support rapid progress for the achievement of the Sustainable Development Goals by Africa, the Vice-Chancellor, Osun State University, Professor Labode Popoola joined over 200 global leaders in government, business, academia and civil society on Friday 27 January, 2017 in Kigali, Rwanda to launch the Sustainable Development Goals Centre for Africa (SDGC/A). The primary objective of the event was to discuss the major themes relevant to the SDGs implementation in Africa, including a presentation of the Africa Report 2030 as well as the official launch of the Center.
The SDGC/A was established by the UN Sustainable Development Solutions Network, following the signing of the historic agreement on Sustainable Development Goals during the UN General Assembly in September 2015. The launch is part of the Centre’s efforts at “Expediting the Implementation of Africa’s 2030 Agenda”. The event was co-organized by SDGC/A and the Association of African Development Finance Institutions (AADFI), with support from The Japan International Cooperation Agency (JICA).
The Vice Chancellor, Osun State University (UNIOSUN), Prof. Labode Popoola who is also the Co-Director, Sustainable Development Solutions Network-Nigeria (SDSN-Nigeria) stated that the conference discussed ideas about how to leverage technology and innovation as well as stakeholder buy-in to achieve the SDGs. He emphasized that the Centre will not impose its ideas on member countries but, will provide technical back-stopping in doing research and adaptation to technology, as well as availing African countries the expertise that will enhance result-oriented implementation of the SDGs.”
When asked how the centre will help implement the SDGs, Popoola said, “the centre, by itself, is not meant to implement the SDGs but will strive to support technical innovations and also provide access to information on emerging issues in sustainable development; support African governments in developing new funding models to finance SDGs implementation in their respective countries, in addition to linking them with international SDGs financing sources. According to him, implementation of the SDGs is not the task of governments alone, but that of all citizens, particularly, the youths, businesses and researchers. To be able to play an active role in the process, Osun State University will formally join the UN Sustainable Development Solutions Network (UNSDSN-Nigeria).
At the event were the Chairman of the Board of the Centre, His Excellency President Paul Kagame of the Republic of Rwanda who also gave a keynote address; the Co-chairman, Mr. Aliko Dangote, a prominent Nigerian and international businessman and Hajia Amina J. Mohammed, Honourable Minister of Environment of the Federal Republic of Nigeria and the Deputy Secretary-General designate of the United Nations among others. It would be recalled that President Muhamadu Buhari joined other world leaders in September 2015 to launch the SDGs at the UN, thus effectively making Nigeria a key stakeholder in the Agenda 2030.
Speech Delivered During The 10th Matriculation Ceremony Of The 2016/2017 Academic Session By The Vice-Chancellor, Professor Labode Popoola On Wednesday, 8th February, 2017 Across Colleges
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Principal Officers
Provosts of Colleges
Deans of Faculties
Directors
Heads of Departments/Units
College Secretaries
Matriculating students
Parents and Guardians
Ladies and Gentlemen of the Press
Ladies and Gentlemen
I welcome you all, most heartily; to this august occasion that marks the official entry of every student into higher institutions of learning. It is significant because it is a statutory gathering to formally admit deserving and qualified candidates who are fortunate to be offered admission into this institution. Why should the matriculating students of today count themselves fortunate?
For 2016/2017 academic session, a total number of six thousand, seven hundred and seventy-nine (6779) candidates applied to Osun State University to study various courses being offered in the Institution. Of this number, only two thousand, seven hundred and fifty (2750) candidates were offered admission having been found successful in the mandatory Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME) conducted by the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB), and the oral screening conducted by the University to further ascertain and strengthen the quality of candidates being admitted to the University in particular. Our record shows a snapshot of the 2016/2017 Admission Exercise as follows: College of Agriculture-125, College of Education-322, College of Health Sciences-451, College of Science, Engineering and Technology-720, College of Management and Social Sciences-736, College of Humanities and Culture- 349 and College of Law- 47. Being among the lucky few calls for deep reflections.
Licensed on 21 December, 2006 as the 30th State University and the 80th overall in the country (for which we are also known as “3080”), this University commenced academic activities in September, 2007 and has maintained a steady academic calendar. A simple testimony to this is that while many Universities in Nigeria are still battling with the 2015/2016 academic session your University is already in the 2016/2017 academic session. We indeed desire this trend to continue.
The University as of now has about 44 academic programmes, out of which all the 39 that are mature for accreditation are fully accredited by the National Universities Commission (NUC). Our Postgraduate College also commenced admission of students in the 2015/2016 academic session.
It may interest you to know that you are the very first set of students that I am admitting into the membership of this unique community (i.e. UNIOSUN) in my capacity as the third substantive Vice-Chancellor of this University. I envision a state University that is first among equals, most preferred, making significant contributions to the society, an efficiently run, self-reliant, sustainable institution and a force to reckon with among Universities globally; a truly 21st century University by the end of my tenure. Gladly, you have come at the right time, and I challenge you to enlist in this noble vision.
The University has continued to focus on her pursuit of excellence in teaching, research and service to society as enshrined in our vision: “To be a centre of excellence providing high quality teaching and learning experiences which will engender the production of entrepreneurial graduates capable of impacting on their environment while globally competitive’’ and mission: to create a unique institution committed to pursuit of academic innovation, skill based training and a tradition of excellence in teaching, research and community service. Again, I welcome you on board to key into this vision and mission.
You need to continually remember that the distance between today’s ceremony and convocation ceremony is quite wide and it is important that the journey ends successfully. For this to happen, you need to be regular in attendance at lectures, carrying out all your assignments, shunning deviant behaviours and other vices that can expose you and others to danger. This University has zero tolerance for cultism, any form of hooliganism and corruption. I need to further advise you to show respect to your colleagues and staff in the University to make your stay fruitful and productive. Be modest and decent in your dressing and approach to issues. I am aware that in the just concluded orientation programme conducted across the campuses in the University, you must have been informed of the co-curricula activities available on our campuses. We will strive to improve on them as time goes by. Please, avail yourself of these opportunities, not only to excel in learning, but possibly to become our sport Ambassadors. Please strive to uphold the ideals of the University.
In spite of dwindling resources, the University has managed to stay afloat to deliver good services to our students. We must continue to be prudent with, and make judicious use of our meagre resources by blocking every possible leakage. Your role in prompt payment of fees and other charges would assist the University greatly in this regard.
The recent audit of the payment of fees reveals that the University is being owed over Two Billion Naira. This unwholesome trend must stop. The University has therefore, decided that no students will be allowed to write examinations without full payment of all prescribed fees. We need your cooperation in this regard to enable us deliver on our mandate of producing graduates that are globally competitive and can contribute meaningfully to global development. On our part, we assure you of probity, transparency and accountability in the use of your resources.
.Finally, I wish to assure you of maximum security on all our campuses. We however, plead that you do not hesitate to report any suspicious activities to the Dean of Student Affairs, Sub-Deans, Security Officers attached to you campuses, and your Course Advisers. Be reminded that the oath you have taken today is to be obedient to the Vice-Chancellor, all those in authority, and to be of good conduct throughout your stay in the University. Please be warned that a breach of the oath taken today will definitely attract appropriate sanctions. Again, I admonish you to steer clear of cultism, hooliganism and other forms of social menace.
I pray that the Almighty God will watch over all of you, prosper you and make you all a source of pride to your families, states, country and humanity. Today’s joy shall be permanent. Amen.
Once again I congratulate all the matriculating students and wish you a productive and fruitful stay in Osun State University.
God bless us all.
Labode Popoola
Vice-Chancellor.
Uniosun Matriculates 2,750 As Vc Admonishes On Cultism, Corruption
The Vice-Chancellor of Osun State University, Professor Labode Popoola, Wednesday, said no fewer than two thousand, seven hundred and fifty (2,750) qualified candidates were admitted for 2016/2017 academic session even as he reiterated his commitment to fighting cultism and corruption in the institution.
Professor Popoola made this known in his speech delivered at the University’s 10th Matriculation Ceremony held across all campuses of the institution on Wednesday, February 8, 2017. He said the 2,750 matriculating students were found qualified and offered admission out of a total number of six thousand, seven hundred and seventy-nine (6779) candidates who applied to study various courses being offered in the University.
He said: “For 2016/2017 academic session, a total number of six thousand, seven hundred and seventy-nine (6779) candidates applied to Osun State University to study various courses being offered in the Institution. Of this number, only two thousand, seven hundred and fifty (2750) candidates were offered admission having been found successful in the mandatory Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME) conducted by the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB), and the oral screening conducted by the University to further ascertain and strengthen the quality of candidates being admitted to the University in particular. “Our record shows a snapshot of the 2016/2017 Admission Exercise as follows: College of Agriculture-125, College of Education-322, College of Health Sciences-451, College of Science, Engineering and Technology-720, College of Management and Social Sciences-736, College of Humanities and Culture- 349 and College of Law- 47. Being among the lucky few calls for deep reflections.”
He said the University would not tolerate cultism, hooliganism and other evil acts. “You need to continually remember that the distance between today’s ceremony and convocation ceremony is quite wide and it is important that the journey ends successfully. “For this to happen, you need to be regular in attendance at lectures, carrying out all your assignments, shunning deviant behaviours and other vices that can expose you and others to danger. This University has zero tolerance for cultism, any form of hooliganism and corruption. I need to further advise you to show respect to your colleagues and staff in the University to make your stay fruitful and productive. Be modest and decent in your dressing and approach to issues,” he stated.
He also advised the students to pay school fees as no unregistered students would be allowed to write the semester exam. “In spite of dwindling resources, the University has managed to stay afloat to deliver good services to our students. We must continue to be prudent with, and make judicious use of our meagre resources by blocking every possible leakage. Your role in prompt payment of fees and other charges would assist the University greatly in this regard. “The recent audit of the payment of fees reveals that the University is being owed over Two Billion Naira. This unwholesome trend must stop. The University has therefore, decided that no students will be allowed to write examinations without full payment of all prescribed fees. We need your cooperation in this regard to enable us deliver on our mandate of producing graduates that are globally competitive and can contribute meaningfully to global development. On our part, we assure you of probity, transparency and accountability in the use of your resources,” he stated.
Professor Popoola also reiterated the commitment of his administration to the provision of adequate security on all the campuses of the University. “I wish to assure you of maximum security on all our campuses. We however, plead that you do not hesitate to report any suspicious activities to the Dean of Student Affairs, Sub-Deans, Security Officers attached to you campuses, and your Course Advisers. Be reminded that the oath you have taken today is to be obedient to the Vice-Chancellor, all those in authority, and to be of good conduct throughout your stay in the University. Please be warned that a breach of the oath taken today will definitely attract appropriate sanctions. Again, I admonish you to steer clear of cultism, hooliganism and other forms of social menace,” he warned.
Friday, 10 February 2017
Unique House Modeling Agency In Association With National Association Of Agricultural Students Presents
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Date: Feb 14
Location: Osun State University, Ejigbo Campus..
This is a valentine special programme in other to make this year's valentine in Ejigbo a special one.. Unique house modeling agency and NAAS wants to take us back to the vintage love... Na that kind olden days love dey sweet pass... During the times of letter writing and post offices.. Those love that kept lovers waiting... *THanks to unique house modeling agency and NAAS for wanting to give us the best valentine experience*...❤
So on the 14th all you gats do is come to school with any style of vintage cloth you gat... Let's rock those vintages... 👚👕👗
The 3 most creative dress style will have a photoshoot and also feature in the official page📸📱
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@Uniosunfashion @uniosuntrendies @naijacampustrends @naijacampusvibes
#SlayersOnVintage #VintageLovers #LoversOnVintage
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#UNIQUEHOUSE
Osun State University IKIRE Campus Library, An Abandoned Island Of Knowledge
In the past few weeks, Osun State University campus,Ikire has recorded a very low level of students appearance at the college library. A standard structure which lay at the very extreme left of the campus yard, has been managed by the librarian and other professionals staffs, this well conducive environment is equipped to contain a capacity of about 200 students at a time.
According to the statistics generated by the HISSA press crew after several days of delay as a result of the non teaching academic staff union strike which lasted a week, the team did an objective critical analysis of students that made use of the library between 10th of January to the15th of the same month. The research proved that from the 10th of January 2017 the numbers of attendant on the journal was 18students,on the 11th 59students were recorded,48,34,64 respectively, it totals at 251students,with 400level having 60% appearance,100level with 30% then 200level and 300level shares 10% respectively.
This statistics however proven to be embarrassing shows how much the reading culture among the college students is at a very minimal level,well it should be noted that understanding comes under the ability of being able to grasp in an atmosphere that creates the best opportunity to explore varieties of scholarly ideas which emanated from the late centuries especially with the theories and the contemporary.
Being cutaway of this opportunity is not in any way a social problem but the inability of a learner or student to have a self command by being ascetic of knowing what to do with resources that lies around him. There are now urgent calls on students to have a pragmatic and proactive measure towards the way they relate with the institutions that lies around them
In a bid to relate reasons why the university library has become a shrine where students flee from,it was discovered that legacy has lost its cloak of integrity amidst the flag bearers or those I will call the forerunners or ambassadors of great institution.
The fresher’s has been exposed to a world where there are diversities in every sphere of influence, differentiations in ideological beliefs and practicality towards oneself and to the immediate environment this is what could be called the secondary socialization, the school (university) is one of the major secondary institution of socialization which the library cannot be left out as an instrument of socializing.
In essence secondary socializing should come from mainly the 300 and 400level students whom should act as agencies and instrument alongside the library institution. By this collaboration,a clear sense of belonging would spurn within the student for social consciousness which in turn becomes an added value to students academic performance and also a reorientation.
Although there has been lots of complaints regarding the lack of enough materials in the college library which is one of the best amongst the six campus of the university, it is important to note that the school won't see it as something important to equip the library with more materials since they know the students themselves don't patronize it. This is one of the reasons why the agitation for reequipping the library has been a thing of joke especially in the school administration's part.
It’s high time we all recognize our responsibility as a social being in this society and begin to explore what we have and taking advantage of what we posses, what will change us, what will give us the intellectual capability to sit with brains around the world, what will expunge the ignorance in us and awaken the psychological neurons in our brain.
Opeyemi Yusuf Jubril.
HISSA Press.
A Touching Open Letter To All Matriculants From President Pope
It is with joy and happiness that I pen down this letter to all the matriculating students of Osun State University, Ikire Campus. I must congratulate you all on your matriculation that was held today, 8th of February, 2017 as it is a fulfillment of one of your dreams.
I facilitate with you all, as today's memory continues to linger in our brain. I hope you will be able to gather the best of knowledge and experience throughout your stay on campus. I will also want you to take a deep reflection on the OATH you took today.
I will want you all to take proper note of where you promised to pay due respect and obedience to the authorities of the Osun State University and, faithfully observe all regulations and directives which may from time to time be issued for good administration of the University. We must not forget the part including directives, that students should make restitution for any damage done by students, to the property of the University or the Public in course of protest or otherwise.
I must not forget to raise your consciousness to where you promised not to belong to any "secret society" during your period of studentship in Osun State University. I must also remind you where you promised not to, either alone or in conjunction with other students, engage in any act of violence or other improper conducts but, to shun immoral vices and act in accordance with the school rules and regulations.
Finally, I urge you all to keep all this aforementioned promises till you graduate, so as to have a hitch-free stay on campus. To wrap it up, never forget what the Book of Ecclesiastes says, "Never forget thy God in the days of thy youth". You are now a bonafied student of Osun State University, Ikire Campus.
Once again !
Congratulations !!!!!!
FAHSA President
POPE OF HUMANITIES
Urgent Message To All Uniosun Students – Management (Must Read)
Dear Students,
Senate has approved that the registration portal be opened for use on Friday 17 February and be closed by Friday 24 February, 2017. You are advised to conclude your registration, including payment of late registration charge within this period. These are simple rules that apply in all civilized climes. For the avoidance of doubts, NO unregistered student will be allowed to write examinations. Such students are advised to stay clear of examination centres.
Management.
Wednesday, 8 February 2017
Important Information For All 100 level Students From Management
This is to inform all 100 level Students who were matriculated that they can now check and print their matriculation number.
According to a media post by the college secretary; Mr Marcus Awobifa, he posted that students who are in 100 level can now check and print their matriculation number.
Visit www.uniosun.edu.ng to check your matriculation number.
Tuesday, 7 February 2017
MESSAGE TO EVERY MATRICULATING STUDENTS!!!!*🔜🎀🎀🎀
When we were kids we all always had dreams of becoming either a doctor, an engineer, a lawyer, a banker(not knowing it was accountant we meant) and so on... We all wanted to become all this things as kids but only a few of us have actually achieved them today......
But the real question is have the rest of us failed???? Did we really miss it???? Why are we not those things we wanted to be today????
When I was in primary 5, I remembered vividly I wanted to become a petroleum engineer.. Well funny enough today am in my 4th year as an agricultural economist(😃😃😃)...
I asked myself one day how did I get it wrong??? How did I go from wanting to be an engineer to being a farmer/business man???
Then I thought when I was in pry 5 why did I want to be an engineer in the first place??? Well I actually wanted to become an engineer because I thought engineers earned 1$ as salary and that 1$ would buy me a house a banana highland and a car😃😃😃.. As a kid I wanted to become an engineer because the society painted something bad in my brain.. Growing up the society I witnessed in one way or another told me only if you are somethings that you can actually be considered as a first class citizen.. The society thought me that you are only relevant if you are a doctor, an engineer or a lawyer.... The society influenced the dream I had.. The society didn't give the other occupations relevance..
If my teacher wanted to refer to us, he would say you guys are future doctors, engineers, lawyers etc.. He never said you guys are future teachers!!!!! He obviously didn't want to become a teacher.... But he had forgotten the importance of being a teacher, the importance of impacting knowledge in others.. If none of us became teachers who would teach his kids.??? If none of us became farmers how would we survive???
In the process of growing up we got to realize that not all of us can be doctors, not all can be lawyers, we can't all be pilots.... What we all could be and grew up to be were people of our own reality... We realized we didn't have to be lawyers doctors or any of this things to become first class citizens.. All we needed to be was what the society never thought us to be *THE BEST VERSION OF OURSELVES*....
So if you are matriculating today and you feel you could have done better or studied a better course.. I want you to ask yourself this simple question WHICH IS REALLY BETTER, BEING A BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF OR DOING A BETTER COURSE???!
If I Had learn one thing in life it will be society doesn't care who you are doctor lawyer farmer teacher until you make them care who you are, until you impact something they cant overlook...
So you guys should see today as a day in which your dream really begins.... Paint a picture of what you want to get from where you are and make sure you don't give up until you achieve it!!!
The society doesn't need more doctors and engineers it needs more creative selfless and beautiful minds...
You have 4-5 years to prove to the world you are worthy of becoming a 1st class citizen Of life...
This is just a token from the whole lot of advise I have..
*WATCH OUT FOR PART 2!!! LOL*
I CONGRATULATE YOU ALL AND WISH YOU THE BEST IN LIFE!!!
#GERRARD
Saturday, 4 February 2017
Notice To All Uniosun Freshers
This is to inform all freshers that 2016/2017 matriculation ceremony comes up on Wednesday, 8 February, 2017.
By this information all freshers are expected to complete their online registration as well as at the college level.
Freshers are also enjoined to check their portal for payment of two thousand five hundred naira only (#2500) as a fee for matriculation gown.
Copy of the evidence of online print out should be submitted to the Account Officer for further processing.
Thank you.
Signed
Adetu Haruna Olawale
CC:
ACTING DEAN
ALL HEADS OF DEPARTMENTS
SUB-DEAN STUDENT AFFAIRS
Security Threats Continues In UNIOSUN Campuses
The issue of threats by security agencies towards the students of Osun State University, has been reported not have ended across the six campuses, as a student of the Faculty of Education, Ipetu-Ijesha Campus was beaten mercilessly by some Air force officers.
Comrade Mahatma, who happens to have been the victim of this case, narrated his own side of the story. He said, "I was so shocked with what happened that day; I noticed two boys fighting and, before I got to the scene, some Air force officers living very close had taken up the case and was already beating one of the boys; On getting there, I pleaded for mercy for the student that was being beaten but to my surprise, I was turned over and beaten mercilessly by this Air force officials."
The Comrade, who stood to fight for his fellow student, said he was very disappointed at his colleagues who ran and watched the scenario that was happening to him afar off. He also expressed his disappointment at the management who has however handled the case with levity, as well as the police.
It could be recalled that the threat the armed forces have been posing to the students of the school at Oshogbo campus, was just recently addressed when another came up this Monday.
Out Come Of Joint Student Campus Committee (JSCC) That Was Host At Ipetu Ijesha Campus (Read All Action And Dreamer Here)
Today's Joint Student Campus Committee(JSCC) meeting dealt with serious issues pertaining to the University, from the unseen constitution to the selection of electoral committee... It was full of intrigue and absolute drama..... Here is a recap of what happened at the meeting today at IPETU-IJESHA !!!!!!_*
*THE "HOSTPITALITY"*
The host IPETU-IJESHA were very warm and embraced all campuses with hospitality.... A show of oneness and Wiliness to want to work with all other campuses....
*EJIGBO WAS LATE!!!*
The college of agriculture EJIGBO(my campus) was late to the venue due to faulty vehicle during the journey, but they came in guns blazing with Aluta gyrations...
*APPROVAL OF AN UNSEEN CONSTITUTION???*
There were controversies about the constitution as there was inadequate time to review it and make corrections by students but it was stated clearly by the JSCC chairman Com.Victor that the constitution can be put up for review anytime the Student representative council(SRC) deems fit...... There were eyebrows raised though by some comrades....
*ELECTORAL COMMITTEE NOMINEES AND POSTS*
The list of the electoral members and post held will be released soon.... The members from EJIGBO campus are OGUNDELE AKINKUNMI SHERRIF(PRO) AND ALAWODE JUMOKE..
*S.U ELECTIONS CLOSE BY???*
The student union(SU) elections is likely to be scheduled for 2weeks time according to the JSCC CHAIRMAN and that it may likely cause a *shift of exams to 6th of march*.......
*PORTAL TO BE REOPENED BUT.????*
The chairman stated that the VC said the portal would be opened back from 17th till 24th of February 2017 but there will still be payment of a #10,000 late registration fee and that the student might also lose his/her studentship for the unpaid semester Which will be later rectified... This message from the VC was met with bitter reactions from the congress as some felt its a method of extortion while other felt the VC was rather playing a dangerous game....
*A MOLE IN OUR MIDST!??????!!*
During the congress after the selection of the electoral committee there were reports that someone had given the list of the electoral members to the security officials of the school in which the list was later retrieved... Who could it had been?!!? 🤔🤔
*ABOUT THE PHYSICAL ABUSE BY SOME AIRFORCE OFFICIALS ON AN ABLE COMRADE*
The affected comrade was seen today by all and one could say he had recovered to some extent... Chairman stated that the officials involved had been met and appropriate actions had and will be taken..
*ANOTHER SUCCESSFUL JSCC OUTING*
This was another successful meeting by the JSCC.....
Gerrard reporting for COA press
How To Keep The Lady You Are Dating So Another Man Won't Take Her Away
Do you love your girl and you don’t want
another man to snatch her from you?
Then do the following things:
1. Give her plenty of attention. If you give her
attention, she will not seek for attention
elsewhere. Chat with her online via social
media or else another man will.
2. Give her listening ears whenever she is
speaking to you. Avoid pressing your phone
or reading a newspaper when your girl is
talking to you.
3. Do not promise her and fail. Do not
promise her what you cannot do. It is better
for you to say you don’t have than to
promise and fail.
4. Do not be stingy. Avoid telling her that
you don’t have, you don’t have all the time.
5. Be caring. To be caring does not only
mean you should be giving her money.
There are many ways of showing care; e.g
show concern whenever she is sad or in
problems; be by her side when she is in
problems, do not abandon her in her days of
sorrow.
6. Tell her daily that she is beautiful.
7. Tell her daily that you love her.
8. Play with her and joke with her daily.
9. Don’t be too hard and don’t be too soft.
Scold her a little, and pet her a little. Do not
over pet or over scold.
10. Love her siblings, and respect her
parents.
11. Appreciate her when she helps you to do
something.
12. Allow her to advise you, seek her
suggestions and respect her opinions.
13. Respect her.
14. Do not take her for granted.
15. Do not cheat on her.
16. Play with her hairs
17. kiss her on her forehead, cheek and neck.
It will pass a good message to her.
18. Let her sit on your lap sometimes.
Students' Union In Uniosun To Kick Start In A Jiffy As Portal To Be Re-opened By February 17th To 21st
The students of the Osun State University cut across all the campuses converged and had a peaceful cum efficacious congress at Ipetu-Ijesa campus.
The students were apprised about the most anticipated students union to surface in the institution. And it was affirmed that the union will be in existence less than two weeks. Also, the students union constitution was presented by the Joint Campus committee which was adopted by all students at the congress.
Afterward, the responsibility of coordinating the upcoming election was reposed on the newly nominated representatives from all campuses, as election calendar will soon be unveiled by the newly inaugurated committee.
Their names are as follows;
*- Ifetedo Campus*
Adesina Feyisayo (Chairman) and Oyewumi Taoheed
*- Osogbo Campus*
Akinlade Boluwatife (General Secretary) and Adeleke Michael
*- Okuku Campus*
Akindele Abiola (Treasurer) and Adedeji Blessing
*- Ejigbo Campus*
Akinkunmi Sheriff and Jumoke Omowumi
*- Ipetu Campus*
Folorunsho Adetunji and Adebayo Monsurat
*- Ikire Campus*
Adesina Jacob and Alabi Oladeji
In light of the recent assault that was exhibited by some Air Force members on some students of Ipetu Ijesa campus, the Chairman of the Joint Campus Committee, Mr. Victor Ohamara assured all students that necessary measures have been ongoing to be put in place so as not experience such occurrence in days ahead.
The burning issue in mind of students which is the early closure of portal was also addressed. The Joint Campus Committee delivered the report of meeting with the management that the portal will be opened by 17th - 21st February and the late registration penalty of #10,000 will not be excluded. This, all students present at the congress kicked against by chanting *'We won't subscribe to that policy'.* They all sent back the Joint Campus Committee to the institution's management to convey their stance in terms of calling for reversal of the policy.
The congress was adjourned with anticipated swift response from the management as regards the late registration penalty.
In an interview section with the Vice Chairman of Joint Campus Committee, Mr. Boluwaji Afolabi, he affirmed, "the committee will absolutely and strongly convey the stance of the students to the management". Also, he preaches for unity to keep on in all campuses so as to achieve positive and the so much desired reversal of late registration penalty.
#PlacidityReporting
For MAGNiC_Uniosun.
Ladies!! Checkout The 6 Types Of Men You Should Avoid Falling In Love With
No matter how pressed you are to get into a relationship, you owe yourself the duty and responsibility to look very closely before you leap into one.
Regardless of how patient and considerate you are, your life will be a lot better if you avoid entering into a relationship with the type of men listed below
1. Dishonest guy:
What’s love without trust? If you detect any shadiness or discover a lie from a man while you are yet to begin the relationship, that could be a big, big sign that he is a dishonest man.
You don’t need that kind of man in your life.
2. Low self esteem guy:
When a man suffers from low self esteem, he has too many things about himself that he hates, and this affects the way he sees himself, and ultimately affects the way he relates with you.
You do not need a man who always feels the need to put you down, just to make himself feel good.
3. Mr. Stingy:
This is an absolute no-no and every woman deserves to be far, far away from such man.
4. The unambitious:
While you might see no problem in dating a man who is not yet the complete package, you should think twice about dating a man who goes through life without a definite plan.
If a man is supposed to ‘be in charge’ but actually has no plan in place, it’ll affect not just his life, but your relationship, too.
“Where do you see yourself in 1 year,” you ask, but he does not know.
“How about in six months?” He does not know either.
5. Unreliable man:
A man who is never there for you does not deserve you.
What is the point of being in a relationship who never shows up, or shows up when he is no longer needed?
You want to be with a man you can rest on, someone you can lean on in your most trying times and rejoice with in your times of triumph.
6. Man with no passion:
As much as you might hate a man who is overly passionate about his job at your expense, the truth is that he is way better than one who has absolutely nothing that drives him.
Find you a man with a passion, something that makes him burn… because a man that has no passion can not make you better; and that is exactly what you need – a man who inspires and helps you to be better in every way.
***
Friday, 3 February 2017
Good News Student Portal to be Re-opened As School Sets New Exam Date
Reports reaching us shows the the school calendar has been revised and the 2016/2017 Harmattan semester exams will start fully on the 6th of March 2017.
According to information gathered, the school will stick to its 'no fees no exams' policy which will then pave way for the re-opening of the school's student portal for fees payment and course registration.
No student will be allowed to write exams if they haven't paid their fees or registered their courses. This is coming as a heads-up to those who haven't paid their fees or who are still yet to register their courses.
Correction Expulsion From The University Uniosun Expels 7 Students For Involvement In Cultism Remove Akinloye Oluwatosin Oluwamayokun Add Adefemi Jeremiah Tope - (Read Details Here)
CORRECTION: In UNN publication (Vol. I, Issue 1, January 2017 of 1st February, 2017), “AKINLOYE Oluwatosin Oluwamayokun; Matric No- BCH/2013/0013; Department of Chemical Sciences, College of SET, Osogbo Campus”, should have read “ADEFEMI Jeremiah Tope; Matric No- WLM/2011/0001; Dept. of Fisheries and Wildlife Mgt., College of Agriculture, Ejigbo Campus” . AKINLOYE Oluwatosin Oluwamayokun with Matric no: PBH/2014/0018 is a bona fide student of the University in Department of Community Medicine, College of Health Sciences. The error is highly regretted
The University management at its meeting held on Tuesday, 20th December, 2016, considered the recommendation of the Student Disciplinary Committee on cult related activities involving students and consequently upheld the recommendation that the following students be expelled from the University for participating in illegal and secret meetings organized by a secret society/fraternity and for being members of an illegal association:
01 ADEFEMI Jeremiah Tope (WLM/2011/0001; Dept. of Fisheries and Wildlife Mgt., College of Agriculture, Ejigbo Campus)
02 AKANJI Olawumi Sulaiman (AGE/2013/0015; Dept. of Agric Econs& Extension, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
03 OWAPETU Abdulrahman Abiola (ANS/2013/0033; Dept. of Animal Science, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
04 ADEBAYO Oluwafemi Rotimi (AGE/2013/0004; Dept. of Agric Econs& Extension, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
05 BABATUNDE Sodiq Oladaride (AGN/2013/0018; Dept. of Agronomy, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
06 AYELAAGBE Oluwadarasimi Favour (ANS/2014/0010; Dept. of Agric Econs& Extension, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
07 OLUWAFEMI Oyewale Christain AGN/2013/0020 Dept. of Agronomy, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus
The above students are hereby expelled from the University with immediate effect and are also barred from the Campuses of the University.
Copies of expulsion letters have been sent to the Provosts of Colleges, Heads of Departments, Acting Dean of Student Affairs, Head of Security and Parents of the affected students have been duly informed of this development.
I Know How To Teach Than Eating Pounded Yam; Uniosun Lecturer Confesses
A popular lecturer in the department of French and International Studies, Osun State University, Ikire campus, Dr Wende who doubles as the Secretary of ASUU; Uniosun , had said that his teaching skills supercede the rate at which he consumes morsels of pounded yam.
Dr.Wende consciously said this while delivering his speech at the Pan Africanist’s programme which was held yesterday at the college in ETF building.
Also in his speech,the French lecturer highlighted the fact that a struggle cannot be championed without a destination and that there must be a factor instilling such struggle.
He however decried colonial education saying that the colonialists did not give Africans the normal education but a cosmetic-kind of education.
Dr.Wende said that the kind of education given to Africans by the whites was only meant to take over the political, economic, religious system and the cultural values of the black race.
Reported by LENS Press
Another Great Lost Nigeria Female Corper Loses Life
State female NYSC member serving in Kaduna State , Vivian Wobo , has died today after she complained of being seriously ill since this week , reports say.
Her corpse is about to be transported from Kaduna to Port Harcourt today. This is really sad.
RIP
Thursday, 2 February 2017
Why Men Always Ask You For Sex (Must Read)
I want to change some ladies' mindset today. You see, men are not dogs. Not all of them are mad. They are not all sex maniacs that once they see you, they descend on you and finish up before you could open your mouth and say no. Not all the men on the street wants to get into your pants. I'm going to be real and down to earth with this article.
The way some ladies complain men are always asking them for sex really baffles me. Why sex, why not marriage proposal? Why do men always want to sleep with you? Why is it that every single guy who asks you out is always hitting you for sex? Why won't they marry you unless they have a taste of the forbidden fruit? What is the problem because this is a big problem! It is not something to be proud of, if all what men see about you is your body and nothing more. It is a cause for alarm!
1. CHECK YOUR DRESSING: A female's body means nothing to her. You are used to seeing your breasts and every soft body part all your life. It doesn't mean a thing to you but to guys it means the universe! Men are moved by sight. Wearing armless (exposing your shaved armpit and upper arm) can turn a man on talkless of the low neckline exposing the cleavage of your breasts. Tight trousers, tights (panty hose) which shows the shape of your buttock, mini and micro mini skirts exposing your thigh all can make a man go wild! Better face reality now and mind the way you dress. Some ladies say it doesn't matter. Men should be able to control themselves. They are entitled to what they wear. Then you should be able to control yourself when they start asking you for sex and not come here lamenting all men are dogs!
I saw a lady around Yaba sometime ago and I whistled. Jesus Christ! The gown (not really a gown, the top was sown together with the trouser, it was suppose to be a gown but the one down is a trouser) clung to her body like her second skin and right through the window of the car, I was literally, looking at the shape of her buttock! It was like she wore nothing! She thought she looked so beautiful but well, she looked so seductive! If she was going to visit her boyfriend or fiance, it will take the power of the Most High God and the special anointing of the Holy Ghost for that guy not to sleep with her that is if a mad man didn't rape her before she gets to her destination! It was that baaad!!!
2. LEARN HOW TO SIT: Some ladies don't know how to sit. Expecially the skirt wearing sisters. You sit in front of a guy and open your laps, what do you want him to see? A trance? Yeah, he saw a lot of it! Always close your thigh when you are sitting whether infront of a guy or not. Not sitting very well can become a habit and follow you around. And you wonder why all the brothers in the church wants to sleep with you!
I was on a bike one day and saw a fully grown, mature lady sitting in front of her shop with her thigh thrown apart. She wore a short gown and was sitting facing the express road! The whole world had a complete assess to her holy of holies, may the Lord have mercy! If men start asking her for sex, she will tell us she doesn't know why men are disturbing her.
3. YOU TOUCH MEN A LOT: Ladies who touch, hug and wrap themselves around guys are sexual magnets to sexually immature guys. Why are you always hugging and pecking, for what? Can't you talk without touching, holding and hugging someone? Some even sit on their "friend's" lap and say it doesn't matter. He is just a brother in Christ. He would soon be a lover in bed. Learn to control your emotions around the opposite sex. If you must hug, go look for your fellow lady to hug and peck and you still need to be careful. Lesbians are all over the places!
4. CALLING MEN PET NAMES: I hate it when men call me dear - I'm not your dear! I am dear to only God and my hubby. Some people just throw around the word "dear" as if it is a second language! Why would you give all the guys in your life pet names? You say, "thanks dear," "okay sweetie", "see you dearie", "bye love", etc., you are looking for serious trouble. Words like this turns a man on.
5. YOU PRAISE MEN TOO MUCH: This shouldn't be a problem at all but experience has taught me that men are attracted and eventually turned on by women who praise them silly! You can compliment men if you want to but be discreet and casual about it. Don't over do anything. Telling a guy, "whao! what a nice moustache you've got!" or that "muscle on your arm can make any lady go crazy for you" is indirectly telling him you like his body and wouldn't mind if he sleeps with you
6. YOU SEDUCE MEN: Here, you deliberately wear provocative dresses with the intention to turn him on. You want to see whether you are sexually admirable to him and want to see how far he can respond to your seduction. You don't need that test at all. Men are turned on by women whether you seduce him or not. A woman's body is built to turn a man on.
7. YOU POST SEDUCTIVE PICTURES ON THE SOCIAL MEDIA: When I see the way some ladies pose on facebook, I wonder what they are really looking for. Why pouting? Do you want him to kiss you? Why turn your buttick to the camera? Do you want him to see how big it is? Why focus on your chest? Do you want him to know you have firm breasts? What is the purpose of the pictures you are posting?
8. YOU ALWAYS MEET YOUR PARTNER IN DARK AND LONELY PLACES. Lobatan! Sex has finished its mission. Sex loves dark and lonely places. Wait, why are you always avoiding the public? You want to talk? Can't you still be around people and stay out of ear shot? What are you talking about that we must not hear? Send a text message or write a letter. You don't need to hide in darkness to express your heart.
9. YOU SLEEP AT YOUR FIANCE'S HOUSE: Why are you in a hurry to sleep under thesame roof with a man? Why are you in a hurry? What is your problem? Some ladies can't wait for a man to propose. They pack their bags and move to his house immediately. For what? And when that one gets tired of the sex, he sends them packing and we are here listening to all their tales of woe! Some don't even expect their man to ask for sex. Aaah! Who dash monkey banana? You are here lieing on thesame bed with him and looking as fresh as Agege bread straight from the oven and you say he should not eat? Tufiakpa! God fobid bad thing!
10. YOU EXPECT MEN TO ASK FOR SEX: Some ladies think because they are exceptionally beautiful, men will always ask for sex so it's not really their fault that they sleep around.
That is a big lie from the pit of hell!
My mentor is an exceptionally beautiful woman with large hips. You can easily pick her out from a crowd because of her hips. She uses no makeup and jewelry yet she has a stunning face that makes any man look twice yet she married as a virgin. 14 fire brand brothers had proposed to her before her husband came. None of them came because they wanted to have sex, they literally came because they wanted to marry her and her fiance never pressurized her for sex till she got married. She surrendered her virginity to her man on her wedding night.
You need to work on your mind. Thinking all men will die for you because you have a hot body is crap! Not all men lose their senses when they see a woman with seductive body. All irresponsible, immature, abusers and users do get attracted to her anyway. Mature, godly men don't get their brain twisted on sporting that type of woman.
Alright, here are the ten possible reasons men may be sleeping with you and I know you are sick and tired of being used and dumped. If you really desire to get married and marry right, I mean you want to attract a godly man and gloriously settle down to a beautiful marriage, you will need to work on your mindset and change your attitude towards men.
Watch what you wear, how you sit, where you go and the way you behave around men. A virtous lady dresses well to cover her body and comports herself maturely around men. You will be addressed the way you dress. If they are always asking you for sex. Check what is wrong and fix it. God bless you.
Audition Lee Empire Presents Her Dance Audition Which Is Slated To Hold On FRIDAY, 3rd Of FEBRUARY, 2017 by 4pm At The ETF Building Of The Prestigious Campus Of OSUN STATE UNIVERSITY (IKIRE CAMPUS)
It is on this note that the entire management of LEE EMPIRE hereby urge us all to inform anybody around us about the audition as it is one of its kind, such opportunity might not surface again any time soon as those qualified will start training immediately and will get a kickstart to their career almost immediately ....
Get informed!! Get along!!!
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Wednesday, 1 February 2017
Ways To Speak Up Without Starting A Fight (Must Read)
Keep your focus on what you want, not what you don't.
The importance of expressing your feelings in an intimate relationship shouldn't be underestimated. Being honest about how you feel allows for bonding and emotional closeness, which improves every aspect of your relationship; withholding how you feel creates distance and disconnection. But even knowing how important emotional expression is, many people fear and avoid expressing their emotions—especially when they are upset. The most commonly cited reason: “I don’t want to cause a fight.”
How do you let someone know you're upset or unhappy without causing a fight? These three steps might help you more effectively express yourself.
1. Don’t assume you'll be met with a negative response.
Assuming that expressing your emotions will cause conflict is part of the problem. To be fair, most people jump to this conclusion because they've experienced trying to express how they feel and having it turn into a fight. But when you imagine something going badly, you prepare for it to go badly. When people expect a fight, they avoid expressing negative emotions until they are so upset that they can’t hold them in any longer. Feelings which may have been brewing for many weeks come out in an explosion that feels like an attack to the other person.
Instead of doing this, imagine what it would be like to talk to your partner in a way that would feel calm. When you don't expect a conversation to go badly and can anticipate a positive outcome, your approach and energy will be entirely different when you engage with your partner.
2. Use "I feel" statements without justifying them.
Expressing emotions can make you feel vulnerable. As a result, most people are naturally inclined to want to justify their feelings, often by blaming the other person in some way: "I feel upset because of what you said and did." But blaming the other person by stating that how you feel is his or her fault makes them defensive—and prevents them from hearing what you are saying.
Instead, try to state how you feel—and then put a period after the emotion and wait for a response: feel annoyed. I feel frustrated. I feel sad. Most people find this much harder than it sounds, because putting an emotion out there without a justification can make you feel awkward and exposed. But if the person you are speaking to cares about you, their natural response will be "Why?" That person is now engaged and has invited you into a conversation.
3. Express what you want before what you don't want.
Most negative feelings are generated because of something you don’t like or don’t want. On the other side of what you don’t want, though, is something you do want:"I feel angry because I don’t like being dismissed: I want to be heard."Or,"I feel hurt because I don’t like that you are always busy: I want you to spend more time with me."
Instead, skip over the part about what you don’t want, and go directly to what you do want to avoid putting the other person on the defensive. This way you empower the other person to identify what they can do to make the situation better—and you increase the likelihood that your needs and wants will be heard.
Old way:
You: I feel upset because you never spend any time with me. (blaming)
Your partner: What are you talking about? We are always together. (defensive)
New way:
You: I feel upset. (feeling without justification)
Your partner: Why are you upset? (inviting)
You: I love you and want us to spend more time together. (what you want)
Your partner: I would like that too.
Changing the way you express your emotions is harder than it sounds. I encourage you to practice first in your head and then on other people before trying it with your partner. The benefit of getting your needs met and increasing the emotional intimacy in your relationship is well worth the effort.
BC:PRINCE_OF_LOVE
Some Of The Ways Shy Guys Stylishly Express Their Feelings To Their Crush
Their some ways shy guys stylishly use to express their feelings to their crush.
They’re afraid of telling their crush face to face that he loves her. Their only fear is that “What if she slaps me infront of people”.*Lol*
Well, I’m not saying it’s every shy guys that do all these but most of them.
1. Writing Her Love Letters.
Almost every shy guys do this whether at teens age or not. They do write love letters and intentionally put it in her bag or textbook they actually know she’ll see it. They don’t mind paying for writing love letters to whom help them.
2. Through Social Media Chats.
Shy guys are strong at talking to their crush on social media but very shy at talking to her face face. They do make use of social media chats to stylishly express their feelings to their crush. They prefer social media toasting than face stuffs to avoid getting a slap…”That’s what they think”.
3. Sending Her Lots Of Recharge Cards.
If you notice a guy sending you recharge cards simultaneously, don’t think because you’re his friend. That’s the way of him saying he loves you. They do send recharge cards simultaneously to their crush so that she might be conscious of his feelings towards her.
4. Helping Her To Do Her Assignment/Project.
They don’t care about the money or time that it might consume to help her do her assignment or project. No random guy will just walk into you and say “lemme help you with your project”…
5. Turn Themselves Into MTN Network.
They monitor and guard you wherever you go. They want to make sure you ain't seeing any guy or else you will see jealousy filled their eyes. No guy will say he want to follow you around. Even when their crush is going to Toilet, they don’t mind going to…*Na lie?*
6. Frequent Calls And Text Messages.
They don’t mind calling you twenty times a day just to say “how do you do”.They don’t say more than that. Even if their crush ask them to say their motives for calling, they will say…”I just want to ask if you doing good”… Chai!
7. Complementing Every Little Thing About Their Crush.
They do compliment their crush for every little thing about them everyday. From nice dress to nice shoe, to nice earrings. Even sometimes, their crush will say..”Haba.. Are you a girl”.. I pity him, the day he will say “Nice Bra”… *Lmao*
BC:PRINCE_OF_LOVE
Top 7 Confraternities in Nigeria and their History + Beliefs [MUST READ]
For those of you who don’t know how the various cult groups came into being in tetiary institutions in Nigeria, here’s a brief to further broaden your spectrum.
Most of the publications I have read on the subject of cultism seem to agree that what is known as “secret cults” in tertiary institutions in Nigeria started when the Pyrates Confraternity was formed at the University college Ibadan (UCI) in 1953. The confraternity was formed by six students at UCI, namely, Wole Soyinka, Aig-Imoukhuede, Pius Olegbe, Ralph Opara, Nat Oyelola and Olumuyiwa Awe. The Society was formed for the following reasons among others:
To Abolish convention, To revive the age of chivalryTo end tribalism and elitism.
There is no doubt that the intentions of the founders of Pyrates Confraternity were altruistic. They obviously did not set out to create the hydra-headed monster (or phenomenon) known as cultism in today’s terminology. But like a farmer clearing a bush in the harmattan and setting a fire to a heap of dry leaves, what started with a group of six has now become a chimeric underground movement, a tyrannical monster with many heads.
The list of the secret cults operating in our educational institutions looks like what you will find in the encyclopedia of any computer anti-virus software. At the count it was estimated that there are 44 cult groups operating in various campuses in Nigeria. This is probably an underestimate. It has also been estimated that the University of Nigeria, Nsukka (UNN), University of Calabar (UNICAL), Univerisity of Benin (UNIBEN), University of Lagos (UNILAG), and the Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife (OAU) have not less than 16 cult groups operating in each of these campuses at any given time.
The Different Gang / Cult Groups, Their Origins and Their Beliefs
NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF SEADOGS (NAS)PYRATE CONFRATERNITY
PYRATE CONFRATERNITY
AHOI-SEADOG
This cult group was the first identifiable cult group formed between 1952 and 1954 at the foremost Western University of Ibadan now University of Ibadan by seven persons namely: Ralph Opara, Ikhehare Aig-Imokhuede, Sylvanus Egbuchie, Nathaniel Oyelola, Pius Oleghe, Olumuyiwa Awe and Wole Soyinka. The pioneers of NAS were collectively known as “The Magnificent Seven”. It was headed by CAPON BLOOD. The aims was basically to combat the then increasing occurrence of violence caused by tribal groups during students’ activities, western influences and other secular gatherings, in ways suitable to the cult group but with the advent of time deviation of purpose manifested. Pyrates
sayings and beliefs;
Odas is OdasNo Friend, No Foe (NFNF)Absolute No Lagging (ANL)
Members are knowns as ”AHOI” or ”P-C”
NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF SEALORDS
BUCANNER ASSOCIATION OF NIGERIA (BAN)
ALORA-SEALORDS
In 1972, a member of the Pyrates Confraternity, Bolaji Crew (Code-named “Late Ahoy Rica Ricardo” and others were indifferent to the teachings and doctrine of the confraternity and as such, before one could say Jack Robinson, the birth of a new cult group named Buccaneer emerged structuring it styles and hierarchical structure after the Pyrates. Different notorious cult groups had emerging without check from the concerned authority, unleashing terror on humanity and posterity.
Some beliefs and sayings:
No Price No PayNo brothers in the woodNo laughing on boardBlood for bloodLet the devil that lead you guide you
They have other sayings, which are basically thereby to make new members feel they made the right choice in belonging to a fraternity with such high code of conduct and discipline.
Members are known as: ”Fine boys”, ”Ban Boys”, ”Alora”, ”Bucketmen”, ”Lords,” etc
NATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF ADVENTURERS
SUPREME VIKINGS CONFRATERNITY (SVC)
ARO-MATES
Three young men formed this confraternity in 1982 (also known as de Norsemen Club of Nigeria) was founded by a former members of the Buccaneers at the University of Port Harcourt, with code-name namely:
Rising AngelEric De RedTroppence
It was also called victory COSSA presently the Alpha Marine patrols.
Beliefs and sayings;
Blood on the high seaSinging songs of HojasNever to hang a legEven in the face of death.
Members are referred to as: ”Aro-mates”, ”Adventurers”, ”Vultures”, e.t.c.
THE NEO BLACK MOVEMENT OF AFRICA
BLACK AXE CONFRATERNITY
AYE-AXEMEN
This cult was formed at the University of Benin in Benin City in 1976 by some young men with the motive of building a body to fight against the oppression against Blackman (Students) in the university. Those who initiated this association are rumoured to be runaways from Neo black Movement of Africa, an organization in South Africa that fought the apartheid war and escape into Nigeria for safety. Investigation has shown that it was the borrowed notion that was imported to Nigeria.
Some of their beliefs and saying includes:
The Blackman will be freed with an axeNo f*ck upsForgiveness is a sinDon’t betray your brother in the hoodObey before complain or AbeyanceHe who price must pay
Members are referred to as: ”Aye” ”Axe-men”, ”Seven (7)” or ”Amigos”
THE FAMILY FRATERNITY- COSANOSYRA
MAFIA CONFRATERNITY
CIAO-SONS
This cult was formed in 1978 at the University of Ilorin in Kwara State, but started operation in Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile-Ife in 1980. It started with eight (8) persons in its mob (institution) called the ONO-BRIGADO (1st Brigade) with the first Don as Don KOOLKAT. This cult is styled after the notorious Chicago and Italian Mafia/Mob stars.
Some of their belief and sayings include:
It is better for a bastard (non initiate) to chance/provoke a member than for a numbered bastard (members of other cult group)Retaliation after oppressionSecrecy is where our power liesThey believe in gambling, partying, dating girls, etc.
Members are referred to as: ”Maf” or ”Mafians”
ETERNAL FRATERNAL ORDER OF LEGION CONSORTIUM
DEDY NA DEBT
Klansmen Konfratanity
The K.K.K. cult was started by five students at the University of Calabar, Cross River State in 1986 during the military era. It ideals were borrowed from a cult in California and bears another name known as ETERNAL FRATERNAL ORDER OF LEGION CONSORTIUM or KLANSMEN KONFRATERNITY (KK). Members worship a demon called “Ogor” as their god. Symbolized by a human skull, mostly that of a mad/insane man.
Their beliefs and sayings:
The affairs of a klansman before any other thing in lifeWhat concerns a klansman concerns all klansmenStatus of other cult members are not considered or relevantOath of secrecy abide to all membersPeaceful man in a deadly mood, disagree to agree
Members are referred to as: ”Klansman” or ”Klansmen”
Expulsion From The University Uniosun Expels 7 Students For Involvement In Cultism - (Read Details Here)
The University management at its meeting held on Tuesday, 20th December, 2016, considered the recommendation of the Student Disciplinary Committee on cult related activities involving students and consequently upheld the recommendation that the following students be expelled from the University for participating in illegal and secret meetings organized by a secret society/fraternity and for being members of an illegal association:
01 AKINLOYE Oluwatosin Oluwamayokun (BCH/2013/0013; Dept. of Chemical Sciences, College of SET, Osogbo Campus)
02 AKANJI Olawumi Sulaiman (AGE/2013/0015; Dept. of Agric Econs& Extension, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
03 OWAPETU Abdulrahman Abiola (ANS/2013/0033; Dept. of Animal Science, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
04 ADEBAYO Oluwafemi Rotimi (AGE/2013/0004; Dept. of Agric Econs& Extension, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
05 BABATUNDE Sodiq Oladaride (AGN/2013/0018; Dept. of Agronomy, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
06 AYELAAGBE Oluwadarasimi Favour (ANS/2014/0010; Dept. of Agric Econs& Extension, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus)
07 OLUWAFEMI Oyewale Christain AGN/2013/0020 Dept. of Agronomy, College of Agric, Ejigbo Campus
The above students are hereby expelled from the University with immediate effect and are also barred from the Campuses of the University.
Copies of expulsion letters have been sent to the Provosts of Colleges, Heads of Departments, Acting Dean of Student Affairs, Head of Security and Parents of the affected students have been duly informed of this development.